Haters Gonna Hate: 3 Ways To Use Criticism To Manifest Success
Let's talk about haters, critics, and naysayers and their impact on our manifestations. Should we listen to them, let them take our confidence down, or is there a learning lesson when someone says you’re not good enough? Can we use critique as an opportunity for growth?
Consider this: If everyone is happy with what you’re up to, you probably aren’t stepping out of the comfort zone enough.
There are a few reasons you may experience haters.
As your star rises, it’s inevitable, there will almost certainly be critics and naysayers with something to say about the work that you’re doing to manifest your dream life.
In this episode, I’m sharing three tips for letting other people’s shade turn into your shine.
Tip #1 The Narrative Shift
Be aware that the power of negative feedback is all about how you frame it. You get to decide how what people have to say about you affects your vibe. Is it possible that they’re just trying to dull your shine because they’re concerned about being stuck in the shadows? Can you potentially help the hater find their path while you step onto yours?
Tip #2 The Gratitude Practice
Starve the hate and feed the gratitude! A daily practice of gratitude, saying “thank you” every single chance you get, even in the face of a challenge will tip the scale and remind you of how much good there is in your life.
Tip #3 Invite Criticism To Be a Learning Lesson
One of the greatest lessons in dealing with haters is the lesson of staying composed in high-pressure or anxiety-provoking situations. Doing so will pay off in countless ways throughout your life journey. When someone has something negative to say, consider what the learning lesson is in the experience. Try to take a moment to consider a differing opinion rather than immediately being put off by them.
Resources mentioned in this episode:
The episode My Best Friend Shares Her Woo Woo Journey a conversation with my bestie Elsie Larson of A Beautiful Mess, stay tuned we’ll have Elsie on the show again soon!
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This show is produced, mixed, recorded + additional music by T'Ben Alleman
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