3 Fire Rituals: Candle Gazing, Fire Release, and the Power of Sacred Rage

I transform fear into determination.

The kinetic energy of fire inspires evolution. When there is too much heat in the body, it can manifest as 'fiery' emotions like irritability and anger.

Whether subtly, like the spark of a match or with intensity like the power of a bonfire, these fire rituals support bold, energetic releases of low vibrational emotions.

In the tapestry of spiritual practices, rituals involving the element of fire hold a special place, offering pathways to transformation, healing, and empowerment.

Among these, candle gazing, fire releasing rituals, and the practice of honoring one's sacred rage stand out for their profound impact on personal development and emotional well-being.

This blog post explores the depths of these fiery practices, shedding light on their origins, methodologies, and the myriad benefits they offer to those who dare to embrace the flame.

Grounding RItual

Candle Gazing

Candle gazing, or Trataka Sadhana, which translates to "the spiritual practice of gazing," is a practice of placing singular focus on a flame to deepen meditation and awaken intuition through strengthening the Third Eye Chakra. 

When we fix our gaze on a specific point, we're able to improve focus, cultivate mindfulness and increase our concentration. With an open third-eye chakra, we connect more deeply into our inner knowing and sense of awareness. 

The only tool needed for this practice is a candle. It's recommended to choose your candle thoughtfully, something with natural ingredients, like soy or beeswax, and essential oil aromas. 

Candle Ritual

Origins and Benefits:

Trataka is a technique described in the Hatha Yoga Pradipika, a 15th-century yoga manual, indicating its longstanding importance in yogic practice. The benefits of candle gazing include:

  • Improved Concentration: Regular practice enhances the ability to focus, reducing mental chatter and distractions.

  • Mental Clarity: By focusing on the flame, practitioners can enter a meditative state, clearing the mind and promoting insightful thinking.

  • Spiritual Awakening: Candle gazing is believed to activate the third eye chakra, the center of intuition and foresight.

  • Emotional Stability: The meditative focus helps to calm the mind, reducing stress and anxiety levels.

How to do it:

Set up a quiet space for this practice, choosing a space where lights can be dimmed, and you can be in quiet without interruptions.  

Light your candle.

To elevate the experience, set your space with crystals, herbs, or other spiritual items and special, momentous objects.  

Find a comfortable seat, and begin by breathing quietly for several minutes. 

Gaze into the candle flame and imagine releasing lower vibrational thoughts and energies.

Envision the new feelings, emotions, and energy that you would like to call into your life. 

Sit in meditation for 3 minutes, building up to 30 minutes. 

Blow out the candle and give thanks and gratitude to the energy of the fire, and yourself, to close out the meditation.

The Fire and Rituals

Fire Releasing Ritual

I've been leading retreats, workshops, and moon circles for years, and the Fire Releasing Rituals is a practice I include in just about every experience.

In my travels, while working with wisdom keepers in the South Pacific, Central America, Mexico, the Caribbean, the American Southwest, and in my hometown of New Orleans, the fire ritual is a potent practice for letting go.

The fire ritual is a means discovered by the sages of detoxifying and revitalizing via the forces of nature. Variations of fire release rituals have been practiced over time by many different cultures and communities.

The symbolic essence of the fire ceremony is to release old ways of being and to let go of old stories, inner turmoil, and drama. Through this release comes rebirth, transformation, and renewal.

The fire-releasing ritual supports us in harnessing kinetic energy and then using it to create powerful shifts in our lives. 

Origins and Benefits:

Fire ceremonies have been a part of human culture for millennia, serving as a tool for purification, renewal, and communication with the divine in various traditions around the world. The benefits of a fire releasing ritual include:

  • Emotional Release: It provides a cathartic outlet for releasing pent-up emotions and traumas.

  • Spiritual Cleansing: The ritual purifies the spiritual body, clearing away negative energy.

  • Intention Setting: By releasing the old, space is created for new intentions and manifestations.

  • Community Bonding: When performed in a group, the ritual fosters a sense of unity and shared purpose.

How to do it:

Gather several candles, a small bowl of water, and several scraps of paper.

Light your candles in a circle around you, representing the Sun. If you only have one candle, that's okay too. Spend a moment focusing on the candle flames, inviting your persistent thoughts to dissipate. 

Bring awareness to what you'd like to invite into your life.

Take a moment to call to mind an image of you living this invitation.

Releasing Ritual

In my practice, I like to include a moment of journaling, writing an "I AM INVITING" statement. 

Next, honor your ancestors who've created a path for you to thrive; turn back to your journal and write an "I AM HONORING" statement. 

(DESIGN NOTE: Script: I am honoring _______ who has gone before me, creating a path for my journey) 

Reflect on what is no longer serving you.​ This could be in your physical body, in your emotions, or in your mind. 

Once you've considered those thoughts begin to write each of those thoughts on your slips of paper. On the small slips of paper, write down anything that no longer serves you in your life, the things you are ready and willing to let go of. 

Once you've written your notes on the paper, place each paper into the candle. Let each thought burn away and purify from your subconscious mind as the paper goes up in flames. Allow the words to burn.

Keep the slips of paper small so as not to cause an overwhelm of smoke and be careful not to let the paper burn too long.

Once the paper is lit, drop it in the bowl of water, witnessing this old way of thinking disintegrate. Allow the water to extinguish the flame. As the fire and paper hit the water, consider that old idea or belief purified from your mind - you've burned it and washed it away.

Repeat these steps until your mind is clear and your heart is at ease.

Honor Your Sacred Rage

This practice was initially shared with me by an astrologer friend and writer for my blog, Chelsea Jewel.

On my natal chart, I personally have my South Node, which represents our past karma and comfort zone, in the fiery sign of Aries. What that means for me is that I can naturally carry anger inside.

As human beings, most of us have that feeling sometimes. 

When we're experiencing the energies of fire in our emotional body, that can also manifest as intense feelings of frustration and resentment on one end of the spectrum and as rage on the other end. 

What angers and triggers you is meant to show you what you're most passionate about so that you're moved to take heart-centered action. 

Sacred Ritual

Origins and Benefits:

While not a specific ritual or practice from any one tradition, the concept of honoring one's rage as sacred is a form of shadow work, acknowledging and integrating all aspects of the self for wholeness and healing. Benefits include:

  • Emotional Healing: Acknowledging and expressing anger in healthy ways can lead to profound emotional healing.

  • Increased Self-Awareness: Understanding the sources of your rage can lead to deeper self-knowledge and compassion.

  • Empowerment: Channeling anger constructively can be empowering, motivating action towards personal and social change.

  • Release of Suppressed Energy: Expressing rage safely can release long-held tensions and restore energetic balance.

How to do it?

Begin by dedicating a safe time and space for you to fully feel and move through the emotions you're holding.

You can honor sacred rage by signing up for a kickboxing class and setting the intention to channel your emotions as you move through class.

Or maybe you visit an ax-throwing studio, scream out to heavy rock music in your car, or take it out on the weeds growing in your backyard. 

Using your body to move through your emotions is key for whichever rage ritual you connect to honor your inner fire. When you can honor these emotions within you in this way, you'll likely come out on the other side with renewed clarity, inspiration, and motivation to move forward.

TL;DR — Fire Rituals

Candle gazing, fire releasing rituals, and honoring your sacred rage are practices that invite us to explore the transformative power of fire, both literal and metaphorical.

By engaging with these practices, we can illuminate the darkness within, burn away what no longer serves us, and harness our deepest emotions for growth and empowerment.

Whether through the steady flame of a candle, the purifying blaze of a ritual fire, or the fiery passion of our own rage, we can find pathways to healing, clarity, and renewal.

These practices remind us that within the heart of the flame lies the potential for profound transformation, guiding us towards a brighter, more empowered self.


About The Editor: Diya Kumar is a student at Northeastern University studying Business Administration and Computer Science. She is interested in yoga and all things wellness. You can learn more about her on LinkedIn.


Andi Eaton Alleman

Andi Eaton is a creative director, author, entrepreneur, and cultural influencer in a variety of media. She produces Oui We (ouiwegirl.com) the modern bohemian's guide to everything from travel and style to beauty and holistic wellness. Andi and her projects have been featured on Domino, Glitter Guide, A Beautiful Mess, Southern Living, SELF, Hello Giggles, Refinery 29, WWD, Elle Canada and more; in 2017 she wrapped a year of road tripping throughout the U.S. photographing and documenting travel, style and culture stories available in her new book: "Wanderful: The Modern Bohemian's Guide to Traveling in Style".

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